A man..
How "he" should to be?
From my viewpoint, he should be a man. A man who is with broad minded, hearted. The girl must feel he is everything and nothing else other than him. He should make the girl feel he is the begin and ending of everything in her life. He must make a situation that nothing else without him, so he should be the first and last in this world, for her. He should be very patient with all her act. She can be nagging, irritating, torturing, possessive, cunning and whatever but he should accept her for what she is. Being loyal is not easy but we have to be one! So try to be loyal with your girl. Be sincere. Don't act like gentlemen in front of her but condemning her at her back. Be lovingly partner for her.
Make her feel that she is special. Don't think people are watching out there. A person who don't have enough trust in his relationship (even) will not walk with hand in hand so give her some confidence. Make her feel that she is adorable. She will be the best thereafter. At least she will try to be the best nor like you wanted.
Be truthful with her. Don't lie to her. She will know. It's true. Guys not good in lying. He could be an expert liar but with the girl who realy loves him, he can't "perform" well. Don't hide things. Anything!!! Your secret will lead problem later!! It's not too late for you to tell her off whatever shit you have done so far. Don't worry she won't leave you. Don't ever try to cheat her if did any, don't ever let her to discover it. You are hurting her with all you can!! Yes you do. So before she discover them , it's good for you tell her off what you did. If possible don't do anything once attach with the one you really wants.
I knew it's may take some times for you adopt a girl in your life. Until then don't "expect" anything from a girl called your girlfriend because she is not your sex doll. She can be the worst girl and ever and you have no rights to make her use. Only if you adopted her as your part then you may next step of your relationship. Same, if you not willing to spend with her then don't have psychical contact with her. She gave all her everything to you and deserved the better from you. If can't, don't commit yourself into sex life with a girl. Don't make a girl feel that she is useless shit by being with you. Most of guys are doing it.
She can be the best and ever but the way he treats her will make her think that she is useless. Don't make her stupid by telling your craps. She knew it. Basically girls are smart. Sometime they knew things better than you do. So don't tell story if you can't keep your words. Tell her the true story with the maximum firm you can. She is a human so should have the sense of understanding if she don't; you made a wrong choice. But most of the time guys use / like to repeat the same thing and over and over. She is not your maid so you don't have treat her bad. She is not your accompanion who don't have any work so respect her time and energy. Ask opinion. You can be Bill Gate's only son, but nothing wrong of asking opinion from a person who spending time with you whatever goes and up. That could stupidest idea and ever but it's ok.
Don't let her in sad and sorrow and you playing counter strike out there. ( Normaly I will do that ). Ask her what's wrong. She might say "fine". But nothing wrong if repeat it until you get the right answer which you think that caused her cry. The reason could be you, don't ask her stupid question as you knew the answer as that is you! So say sorry. Don't act like stranger. Girls will lost hope in you. Be firm in everything. Don't bossing her since you never been the one who so-called partner and all of sudden yelling at her mistake. Don't have to being so formal with your girl. Spill out whenever you feel fishy with her act.
Try to use better words to the one you're going to live with. Being supportive is the best thing you can do and the only thing won't make you feel that you were not lose much if you both not get along. Don't be so practical until she feel no life here. As a man of a girl you should know how to keep a her happy. So give her all her space to talk all her craps. Don't make her hate you because of your neglecting. How busy also answer her calls and reply her message as fast as you can. Don't make her feel that she is lonely while having you as a partner. Don't make her look at her phone every hour, expecting your call and text message. Do it regularly at least she knows you are still care for her.
Try to be responsible partner for her. Do your part without her request. Don't make her appeal stuffs at you. If your girlfriend does, you are not good partner. Don't tease her in front of people. She won't appreciate your act. Both of you have some privacy. Scold her if she making mistake. Scold her in private, because she has something called feeling so don't hurt her in public although there's only few people. Sometimes we can't control our anger, humans natural so you can say sorry to her although you knew you never make mistake. You are telling that just for sake of her.
Be the one who you suppose to be. If you can't be the one please do not waste people's time who really wana live with you. Maybe you are thinking that "she is nice and really can commit with me" but inner you don't know how much she crying and hurting with all your act. One fine day she will say "hate you" when you are not ready to hear it and which you never expect at all. Don't think she is tolerating and will be always, yes she is and the same time she knows that she don't deserved all this. You could be the best man but she have to leave you if she can't stand with your acts and you can't stop her.
You may not aware, the value of something when it's next to you but you will regret once it's gone. Most of time we won't realize our happiness is in her but once she vanished.. That's it... Don't find her.. Don't missed out anything! Don't let anger take part in your relationship and it's you who should lead it!
