Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Is true love just once in a lifetime?

I read this line in one of my favourite song from Someday we'll know, A walk to remember.. I look at myself.. Should I say yes or no?

Of course I would like to say yes! but I preferred not to cheat myself.. At least myself.. So I try to figure this out.. Almost 90% people of this earth not extactly got married to their first love. So are they actually faking?

Most of guys are telling, the first girl they slept with full of passion, love, desirous and trust are true love for them. And they describe that girl should be their future wife. Because of some reasons they had to accept the follow on and they still can't feel the same feeling with their current one as before because they believe the pain still there and it's will remain forever. And here these people are saying the true love is once in life.

There's few people are saying, true love depends on their partners. If their partner is ok and yes we will be faithful then yes this would be true love or else we also will play as they doing. After all love only what?? What #?!*+ is it?

Most of girls are saying, their first love although it's just a puppy love, they considering it is a true love. They saying it's very hard to forget those memories. But we're happy with our current life and we're appreciating it but still find my true love was when I was small because that was without any expectation.

Well the rest people are saying love just lust and there's no true love. Because love never exist at all.

- I totally disagree with this statement. Because if love doesn't exist what am I to say for the feeling that I have for my mother, brother, sister, teacher, cousins and etc?

In my definition, true love which makes you regret you even single second and make yourself struggle to forget things, got out of idea of next step about your relationship.. No matter how many time you fall in love.. But when you feel it, that should be worth. The love which mean world for you and new inspiration.. I would say that should be true love and pure love which you never had on anyone else before...

p/s : The one who really straight wouldn't have bothered about true love because what they know is love and not fake. And of course they will confuse.. So how many of you have not confuse but have confess ...?